Friday, February 24, 2012

MEGA POST! Email from Fat 2 Fit Radio's Jeff Ainslie

Before I get into the main topic of today's post I will mention that I had three sessions with the trainer this week and now my body is killing me. I am really enjoying the sessions and he is pushing me just past my comfort zone. He says my dead lift technique is perfect already.

So I sent an email to F2F radio at the beginning of the week, here is the correspondence as follows.

Me:
Hey guys,
I first want to thank you for all your helpful information. I decided to take your advice and start eating at and a little above my maintenance level. It has been a real treat to have a little more to eat each day. However I have noticed that my body is absorbing those calories like a sponge. I have already gained 9 pounds and it has been around 3 weeks. My pants are starting to get tight and I saw the 200's again on the scale this morning. I know you said this would happen, but I am starting to panic/freak out a bit. Perhaps an email from you guys telling me to have faith in the eating more to break a plateau would help. How long should one eat at this level to break a plateau. You mention anywhere from a few weeks to two months. I don't want to stop too soon but I don't know how much more weight I should gain. I response via email would be appreciated at your earliest convenience. Thanks guys. Michelle from episode # 139

Jeff:
Hi Michelle,

I'm going to give you some suggestions and then give you a ton of information to read that I'm going to cut and paste from previous shows. If you manage to get through most of our shows, we answer a weight loss plateau question about every 12 shows and we have some shows where those people write back to us a year or so later to tell us that the strategy worked.

Yes it is true that your body will be absorbing calories live a sponge. It was starving and it is getting as much as it can right now. There is also the possibility that the glycogen stores in your muscles were depleted. When you start eating, those glycogen stores move back into your muscles, and it takes up water to do that. Yes your leg may be a little bigger, but it was from hydration, not gaining fat.

If you gain 3 lbs per week, you will need to eat an extra 1500 calories per day! I doubt that you are doing that. If anything, this is showing that you need to break out of this weight loss plateau even more. You lost most of your weight very quickly - you are very far ahead. Who cares if the last 10-20 lbs comes off slowly after revving up your meatbolism. The benefits will last every single day in your future. The email that I answered right before yours was from a guy who weighs over 350 lbs and is stuck there and he only eats 1500 calories. I told him that I weigh about half his weight, but I eat 2600 calories per day to maintain. On the road he was going, he was going to be eating less and less and fighting his body the entire way. When he hit my weight, maybe he could only eat 1100 calories to maintain his weight. That is a recipe for weight gain. It shouldn't be so hard to maintain if you get there slowly.

So here is a bunch more info that might help you out:

"" Breaking weight loss plateaus

One of the most common questions/problems/concerns from our listeners is what to do when their weight loss seems to stall. It can be an extremely frustrating time for dieters. Many have gone months eating at their goal calorie levels and regularly exercising and have consistently lost weight week after week. Then the weight loss stops for weeks or months with no obvious reason.

This is one situation where if you follow your instincts, you will do exactly the wrong thing and make your weight loss plateau worse.

Most people think that they just are not trying hard enough. They will eat even less and increase their exercise to try to kick start their weight loss. By doing this, they only end up making things harder on themselves and suffer needlessly. You cannot use willpower or determination to get out of a plateau, you don't need to work harder, only smarter.

To break out of a plateau, you must eat more. To truly break free, you need to eat at your maintenance level or even a couple hundred calories more per day for a few weeks.

This type of weight loss plateau is caused by one of two reasons. The most common cause is known as underfeeding. This happens when you are not eating enough calories on a daily basis. The second common cause is from long-term dieting. In both cases, the body has gone into a starvation response and is simply slowing down its metabolism to keep from losing all of its fat and dying! Your body has no idea that this reduction in food isn't going to be permanent.

Dieting is stressful on your body. If you eat too few calories, your body panics to keep itself at the status quo. If you eat below your Basal Metabolic Rate, that is a guarantee that your body will quickly go into "starvation mode". An average man's BMR is around 1900 calories, an average woman's is around 1500. Even if you are only eating at a moderate reduction in calories, after several months, your body will realize that it has been losing fat and can move into a starvation response.

The simple way to get out of a plateau is to remove the stress from dieting long enough to convince your body that it is not at risk of starvation. Then when you reduce your calories again, it will begin to release fat again.

Many people are concerned that if they eat at their maintenance calories for a few weeks, they may end up gaining weight. This may happen, but it may be necessary to fix your stalled metabolism. In a month or two, you will be much farther ahead.

Here are some tips that will help you avoid plateaus:

Only do a moderate restriction in calories of no more than 500 per day.
Make sure that a portion of your fat loss is a result from doing exercise and activities, not only caloric restriction.
Take some time off from dieting every once in a while. A cheat meal once a week or even a cheat weekend once a month will help you in the long run.
Don't do the exact same workouts day after day. Make sure that you are continually changing you activities so that your body does not become adapted to any routine.
Make sure that you are eating often through out the day. Try to eat a meal or healthy snack every 3-4 hours and never skip meals."

Also, here is a question and answer from our book:

Could my weight loss plateau become permanent?

Could my weight loss plateau become permanent? If I didn't make any changes to my calorie intake or my workout routine, wouldn't my plateau work itself out over time and eventually my weight loss start up again?

A plateau is really just your body responding to its survival instinct in a physical way. If it thinks that you are in a famine and starving, it will do whatever it takes to slow down your metabolism.

Once you take away your body's perceived stress about starvation, it will loosen up and you will start losing fat again. We have been giving this advice for the past 3 years, and have received many emails from people who report that increasing their calories has broken them out of plateaus that were months or years long. A common message from these people, is why did I make myself suffer for so long?

Could your plateau become permanent? The short answer is yes, or at least you can permanently slow your metabolism down. When your body thinks that it is slowly starving and is trying to slow it's own metabolism, the best way that it knows to do this is by reducing your muscle mass. For every pound of muscle that your body digests, you metabolism will be slower until you spend months or years in a gym to gain that muscle back. In fact, the only reason that men burn more calories per day and have an easier time losing weight than women, is because they have more muscle mass.

To answer the question about whether with a lot of patience, your body will break out of a plateau if you keep struggling and eating those low calories, the answer is no.

There is almost no chance of that happening. The reason is that your body has found its homeostasis level where it can maintain its weight on low calories. Your body isn't all of a sudden going to forget its own survival instinct and start losing fat if it thinks it is in a famine.

If you have been eating 1500 calories per day and haven't lost any weight in 6 months, why would you expect things to change in the future? If your maintenance level is 2400 calories, eat at least 2400 calories a day for a couple of weeks. Then lower your calories again later.

Losing body fat isn't all about willpower, sometimes you just need to work smarter."

What I would do is take a week off from exercise, and eat 1800 calories and be fairly sedentary and see what happens. To hit your ultimate goal of 133 and stay there with a fired up metabolism and with the exercise that you are doing, you should be able to eat in the 22-2400 range to maintain that weight of 133. If you don't get yourself out of a plateau, you will hit 133 through some drastic efforts and possibly end up only eating 1200 calories to maintain.

One of the other emails that I answered tonight I was talking about a guy who is about 350 lbs and his weight is stuck and he has been eating 1500 calories per day. He is going to be absolutely screwed in the long run if he continues to lower his calories and up his exercise. Yes, he will slowly lose weight, because after all, everyone will eventually starve to death, even thought their bodies are fighting against starvation.

Here is the transcript to part of a show:

Why can't I lose weight?

95% who are struggling are caused by errors that can be fixed! 100% of people can lose weight, no matter what. There is not a single person on the planet who will not lose any weight if they were stranded on a desert island with very little to eat. It's true that people might not lose the same amount of weight, but everyone will lose weight. A 400 lb person who has been stranded for 2 years will not still weigh 400 lbs no matter how many diets they have tried in the past and failed at. We all know that this is true on many levels.

- people believe that it is impossible to lose weight

- many actually do try and honestly believe that they can't

Top 8 Reasons

1. Education
People learn about nutrition in elementary school, but not how to eat

learn from pop culture such as talk shows (The View - black chick gastric bypass, Oprah - liquid 1000 cal diet) or weight loss shows (The biggest loser - people are convinced by t0he product placements)

learn from infomercials which convince people that it all has to do with a certain exercise machine

This shouldn't be a problem for our listeners because we are not just a motivational show, but an educational one.

Degree in P.E., but learned how to calculate calories years after by reading a diet book.

2. Food Reasons
too many calories (99% of people underestimate cals) - We mentioned a survey of Subway patrons in the past and the meal that they estimated at 400 calories was actually over 1000 calories. Also the book Eat This Not That is full of gotchas.

Some people refuse to count calories, whether you do or don't you have to have a calorie deficit.

lose weight with portion control, but you have to measure your results carefully to see if it is working. How do you even measure eating a little less?

Track your portions, many people feel that they are eating less, but are they making up those calories elsewhere? Eating less, but more cals?

food journals are extremely important
hidden calories such as sugar in beverages, condamints with sugar such as ketchup, supplements such as fish oil have calories

eating simple carbs which don't fill you up, give you cravings
croissant vs oatmeal
eating at night (from email 12-14 lb is 79 cals)

snacking

sampling food while cooking
candy dish at work

3. Exercise reasons
biggest exercise failure isn't NOT exercising, its blowing all of the benefit by eating after. Most overestimate the amt of cals burned and then over-reward eating after. Swimming, - Sports drinks...
too little exercise, you need to sweat and put in the time

exercise should be progressive

weak muscles that keep a person from being able to exercise for long or do a high intensity

You need to do an activity that actually burns lots of calories.

Cycling probably 5/min, ellipticals 12-15/min, walking on an incline

4. Damage from previous diets
your body can adapt to very quickly go into starvation mode

as soon as you lower your calories, your metabolism slows

less muscle slower metabolism

all or nothing diets

5. Hit a Plateau
from eating too few calories or lengthy dieting or dieting for a long time at once

Your body has figured out that it is starving and losing weight, not necessarily quickly losing weight

Eat more calories

Nothing wrong with taking a week or 2 off and eat at maintenance

6. Emotional Reasons
emotional eater

coping habits

boredom

stress, not enough sleep

Eat to fill the hollow feeling

Eat because it is sooo good - is it really that good?

7. Motivational reasons
If you really don't want to change the way you look and feel, it will never happen. Others can't make you want to change.

you will never out-perform your self image or

You can't outperform your own expectations and beliefs.

How many times per day do you say to yourself that you are fat vs how many times per day do you say to yourself that you are a thin and healthy person? This will make a huge difference. Don't get me wrong, you cannot think yourself thin or anything like that, but it is easier and more automatic to do things that are inline with your beliefs. So for example, most people would feel bad if they beat up and stole money from a 3 year old because we all have a belief that this isn't the right thing to do. We get that bad feeling in our stomach after doing something bad from our subconscious mind based on our underlying beliefs.

In the same fashion, if you are constantly repeating to yourself day in and day out that you are a thin and healthy person, you will start to believe it and it gets easier and easier to actually do the things that thinner and healthy people do. Attitude does effect beliefs which can affect the actions that you do. I used to have no problem stopping off at a convenience store and buying a king sized chocolate bar or large sub sandwich every single day on the way home from work. If I do that now, I feel bad about it, because "people like me don't do that". I believe that I'm a thinner and healthy person, and I will actually say that to myself when I get tempted. I will feel just as bad by stealing from a child as I would walking up to the till with 15 chocolate bars right now because I believe that I'm not that kind of person.
self sabotage - similar, what if you think you are losing weight too quickly or get uncomfortable with your new size and people noticing?

8. Medical Reasons:
PCOS - 5% of women - you need to be treated under a doctor's supervision
hormone problems
Hypothyroidism

medications
Steroids such as prednisone
Antidepressants that include Lexapro, Zoloft, Tofranil, Paxil, and Elavil (Laurie took Elavil in college to help with migraines. She gained a BUNCH of weight. More cushion...)
Antipsychotics that include such drugs as Zyprexa
Diabetes drugs such as Diabeta and Diabinese
Hypertension medications such as Cardura and Inderol
Beta Blockers such as Zebeta
Even heartburn treatments such as Prevacid have been suggested to promote weight gain.

~ Jeff

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Keep Calm and Carry on

I’m trying not to panic. This is the end of week two on maintenance/and more regime suggested to me by the guys at "Fat 2 Fit Radio". I just got back from my annual trip to the states to do some shopping. I know that it can be a high caloric weekend so I shouldn’t be surprised at the scales to see a few pounds gain. However the number I saw on the scale this morning was a little stressful. It was in the two hundreds again. My weigh in pants are tight and I don’t feel very sexy regardless of the hot new clothes I’m wearing. However if even an additional 5 more pounds will allow my body to relax, then in the long run it is worth it. I just am having trouble looking at the bigger picture. I sent an email to the guys at “Fat 2 Fit Radio” because I sure could us some encouragement and confirmation that I’m doing the right thing…. Anyways, I have an appointment with my trainer every night for the next three days. I will be pumping iron like a pro. Perhaps that will make me feel better.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Trust in the plan: Week 1


Owwww ow ow ow
I had my first session with my personal trainer last night. It was really great. We are working on technique at the moment, making sure I am engaging the right muscles. Now I am deliciously sore, I imagine that in about 12-24 hours I will be really sore. It means I did something right. He was very motivational and surprised that I could already lift the weight that I could.

So I gained around 3.6 lbs at the scale this week. At least that was a gain I earned. I hated those weeks were I would eat well and then gain 2 lbs at the scale and not know why. I am enjoying eating the occasional item without guilt, however I am noticing that my clothes are not fitting like they have been. It is amazing how much a difference 5 pounds feels. Very odd. I cannot wait to start losing again. This week I have a few events out so I am trying to eat well on the regular days and enjoying a lighter option on my days out. My goal is to maintain over the next few weeks not gain too much.

Anyways wish me a happy recovery. I am off to Buffalo tomorrow, the cheesecake factory awaits. LOL

Monday, February 13, 2012

Trust & Trainer

So for the last week I have been eating more then I have been the past few months as per the suggestion from the guys at "Fat 2 Fit Radio". I have had the opportunity to enjoy the occasional beer and treat. It is kinda nice not to have to count every last detail. I am feeling full on occasion which is something that I am not used to and I am noticing that my weight has gone up by a few pounds. As enjoyable as it is to be to laissez faire with my food options this week, I have also been fighting the panic that I am having as a result of the inevitable weight gain. I know that it will happen and I need to trust in the system. I have to let my body relax so that eventually when I get back into the groove again things will start going down. I am just not sure how long I should let this "off program" time happen for. Maybe because I am just not liking the way my body is feeling at the moment.

Secondly I hired a personal trainer. Funny that I would do that while I'm in my "eating" stage but I felt like I wasn't utilizing the gym fully and I figured that If I am going to get my body into heroine shape that I need help gaining muscle and losing fat. I have sessions twice a week so I am hoping that it will be enough to be effective. The trainers name is Adam and he seemed confident that we will be able to see some progress over the next few months. He doesn't like the fact that I am a part of weight watchers. I think it is because the weigh in weight is such a important factor and I am going to be fluctuating so much with the muscle gain and fat loss. I told him that I liked the program and that it helps me so it is staying. I am currently working on getting it to be free and once that is accomplished then I will not have to worry about the scale that much. I hope that it will be worth the money that I am going to be paying for it.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Tactical Retreat?: MEGA POST

PART 1
If you have been reading my blog for a while you might remember that I reviewed a podcast called "Fat 2 Fit Radio". They are the ones that clued me in to the fact that I might have lost a good portion of muscles on my weight loss journey. I sent them an email before the holidays about my current weight loss struggle hoping that they might give me some tips about how to get rid of those last few pounds. I had not heard anything from them so I kind of forgot about it. That is until I visited their website yesterday after my blog post to discover that I was featured in this weeks episode of "Fat 2 Fit Radio".

The epidode "#139 - Breaking Those Nasty Weight Loss Plateaus" features my email about 10 minutes in. "Michelle tells us that she’s tired of being “rubenesque” but has hit a weight loss plateau after losing 115 lbs. Unfortunately she’s trying to break the plateau by reducing her calories. Exactly the wrong way to do it."

They suggest to eat a lot more food, at my maintenance level or more for a few weeks to get my body out of starvation mood. They say that I might gain some weight in the process but that if I were to gradually start to reduce my calories after that I will start to loose again. The idea of gaining scares me, but if they think that it will help I would be willing to try. I kind of wish they had asked my permission to use my letter in their podcast. I have no qualms telling my story to the world and I appreciate the advice. I just wished I had gotten a heads up, I was a little blindsided by my appearance in their show. Listen to the podcast and tell me what you think.

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PART 2
So I might have mentioned last week that I told my leader to talk to her manager about my struggles. I was hoping for some feedback in regards to help me to start losing again. I sent her an email reminder and sent her the link to the podcast.
This was our email correspondence.

Me:
Any news from head office about how to break my year long plateau? Should I eat more or a lot less? LOL I was featured on a weight loss podcast (insert link). So they are saying that I should try maintaining my weight for a few weeks and the slowly lowering my calories after a while. This is scary because I fear I might gain weight back... It might be nessesary though to trick my body. Gah.

L:
Sorry!!! Been so busy I haven't been able to reply. My manager was actually questioning your goal weight and wondering if maybe you should set.it where you are now?

Me:
So their answer to my question is to give up and settle? That is depressing. I haven't even reached Weight Watchers healthy weight range yet. :( They have no plateau busting suggestions?

L:
Not give up and settle...my manager recommended it to take off the stress. The analogy she used was like trying to get pregnant. Once you stop thinking about it, it usually happens. I told her all of the suggestions I gave you and she agreed with all of them.

Are they just trying to get me to a forced goal so that I won't complain anymore. This suggestion kind of confused and frustrated me. It seemed like the easy way out. I do know that I'm going to get a doctors note so that I don't have to pay anymore. I could be using this money towards a karate class or boot camp classes. It just seems that everybody I have been talking to has a different answer for me.

Monday, February 6, 2012

Classes and Video

Friday was Body Combat
I missed doing this class, it must have been a month since I last had the opportunity to make the class. I had a lot of fun and my body sure felt the work out.
Sunday morning was Sh'bam
This is a new class that Goodlife offers. It is a combo of Zumba and a burlesque dance class. It was a lot of fun, the class was packed but I got to do it with a couple of friends (Dr Kitty and The Pink Penguin).

Sunday evening was Jillian Michaels: 6 Week Six-Pack
Christine and I tried this work out which she picked up. We thought that it was going to be all crunches but it was a variety of workouts that dealt with the abs. They made us to the same work out twice. We did the Level 2 work out and it was a little tricky. Nothing like "Shed and Shred" but I am not sure how much it really worked my abs. I guess I will find out tomorrow.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Another day, another cupcake to avoid.

Short post as I have meetings all day. Went out to a fancy restaurant last night, portions were tiny and I don't think it was too crazy point wise. I had a lot of fun and didn't stress about points. I just enjoyed my meal. I got my red dress tailored and it felt and think I looked good in it. Today I am getting my ass to the gym even though I REALLY don't feel like going, but I know I will appreciate the effort afterwards. My motivation has gone from 8 to 2 after Tuesday, but my going is more out of habit then desire at the moment. I will be going to Body Combat tomorrow as well. I have also changed my daily points back to 33.